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Thursday, 31 May 2012

psychologital tips

Self-counseling

Self-counseling and self-analysis are two different things, one should do everyday.
The main thing in life is to be happy and make all the people around you happy.
And for happiness, mental peace is necessary and you need to be a good person also.
Self-counseling is a process that reduces mental instability due to various problems such as
your ego-hurt, relationship etc and Self-analysis makes you perfect.It gives a scope to know 
yourself better. You will find multi-characteristics in you and something you never thought you
have within you.
Now I am coming to the process....

 


before sleep at night come to a place where you have spent your lonely peaceful time.
then set a chair infront of your chair, you are sitting.
Close your eyes for sometimes and think what you have done whole day.
Then open your eyes and estimate what are the problems you have faced i.e
analyze what are the things, making your mind disturbed.
Then tell those problems one by one to that empty chair.
Now solve the problems one by one i.e tell what should be the solutions for those problems.
All the solutions should be positive and don't leave any problem for next day.
From this you will get a mental peace as well as stability and you will learn Decision-making power.
Do 10-15mins before sleep. 


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I will discuss more on self-analysis in the next topic.
Reply if it is useful.

Tuesday, 29 May 2012

amar kobita

ami o amar chaka


chaka hoye nije ghurchi
tomakeo ghorachchi
amar ga guliye uthche
kintu thambo na
tahole pichiye porbo je
tin kaanta-r chaka ta amar aage chole jabe

vejal shanti chor mere jache
gaal e haat buliyeo dichcho na
ami onyer apekkha korina
besamal hole tumi e vugbe
haat ta tumi e dhorechile
aj goriye cholecho

"din guli mor sonar khacha e"
fakashe hobar sasta bajar e
seta tomar haat er baala
setao chaka
amar cholar poth e poro na
tomar sukh evabei gutiye thak chotto chakar majhe....

r ami haaf charbo...jedin
tomar asha-r sathe chaka tao thambe

chokh bondh er onyo duniya te
amio vaste chai
eka....sudhu eka
ekai thakte cheyechilam....
ekai ghurte cheyechilam
faaka se rasta te....
jekhane tala aanta
ahetuk somporkobajir daam nei
sekhane
eka ami o amar chaka